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Kitten
27-02-2002, 11:50 AM
i dont usually like online quiz's but this one really caught my attention with how accurate it was..take this test and tell me whether you believe in it or not...
(its been a known theory for a while that colours can affect our moods, why shouldnt it be that our moods/personality affect the colours we choose?)
go to Http://www.ColorQuiz.com
In Trust, love and Empathy,
~kitten
P.s. Heres my Test results...post yours if you'd like


Your Existing Situation
Defensive. Feels her position is threatened or inadequately established. Determined to pursue her objectives despite the anxiety induced by opposition.
Your Stress Sources
Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that she has a right to anything she might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against her. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration.
Your Restrained Characteristics
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Able to obtain physical satisfaction from sexual activity but tends to hold aloof emotionally.
Your Desired Objective
Urgently in need of rest, relaxation, peace, and affectionate understanding. Feels she has been treated with a lack of consideration and is upset and agitated as a result. Regards her situation as intolerable as long as her requirements are not complied with.
Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of her hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. She is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting her from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
Your Actual Problem #2
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on her resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects her to agitation and acute distress. Tries to escape from this by relinquishing the struggle, and by finding peaceful and restful conditions in which to recuperate in an atmosphere of affection and security.

ShAdOw
27-02-2002, 02:19 PM
Here's mine.. parts are acurate.. n'fact, most is...

Your Existing Situation
Defensive. Feels his position is threatened or inadequately established. Determined to pursue his objectives despite the anxiety induced by opposition.


Your Stress Sources
Feels unappreciated and finds the existing situation disagreeable. Wants personal recognition and the esteem of others to compensate for the lack of like-minded people with whom to ally himself and make himself more secure. His sensual self-restraint makes it difficult for him to give himself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and merge with another. This disturbs him as he regards such instincts as weaknesses to be overcome; only by not succumbing to them, he feels, can he withstand the difficulties of the situation. Wants to be valued as a desirable associate and admired for his personal qualities.


Your Restrained Characteristics
Wants to broaden his fields of activity and insists that his hopes and ideas are realistic. Distressed by the fear that he may be prevented from doing what he wants; needs both peaceful conditions and quiet reassurance to restore his confidence.
Conditions are such that he will not let himself become intimately involved without making mental reservations.




Your Desired Objective
Desires a tranquil, peaceful state of harmony offering quiet contentment and a sense of belonging.


Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem.


Your Actual Problem #2
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects him to agitation and acute distress. Tries to escape from this by relinquishing the struggle, and by finding peaceful and restful conditions in which to recuperate in an atmosphere of affection and security.

cranberry
27-02-2002, 02:36 PM
and mine...
Your Existing Situation
Readily participates in things affording excitement or stimulation. Wants to feel exhilarated.

Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. Her control of her sensual instincts restricts her ability to give herself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow herself to merge with another. This disturbs her. as such instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; she feels that only by continued self-restraint can she hope to maintain her attitude of individual superiority. Wants to be loved or admired for herself alone; needs attention, recognition, and the esteem of others.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Circumstances are forcing her to compromise, to restrain her demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things she wants.
Feels cut off and unhappy because of the difficulty in achieving the essential degree of cooperation and harmony which she desires.


Your Desired Objective
Over-imaginative and given to fantasy or day-dreaming. Longs for interesting and exciting things to happen and wants to be admired for her charm.

Your Actual Problem
The fear that she may be prevented from achieving the things she wants leads her into a relentless search for satisfaction in the pursuit of illusory or meaningless activities

Your Actual Problem #2
Feels insufficiently valued in her existing situation, and is seeking different conditions in which she will have greater opportunity of demonstrating her worth.

thanks for the link ^_^

Basic Beecicchi
27-02-2002, 02:49 PM
[i have no idea why. i'm still strangely drawn to any of Kitten's posts.]

Your Existing Situation --
Seeks a close and understanding bond in an atmosphere of shared intimacy, as a protection against anxiety and conflict

Your Stress Sources --
The situation is regarded as threatening or dangerous. Outraged by the thought that he will be unable to achieve his goals and distressed at the feeling of helplessness to remedy this. Over-extended and feels beset, possibly to the point of nervous prostration.

Your Restrained Characteristics --
Remains emotionally unattached even when involved in a close relationship.
Circumstances are forcing him to compromise, to restrain his demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things he wants.

Your Desired Objective --
In despair and needs relief of some sort. Wants physical ease, a problem free security, and the chance to recover.

Your Actual Problem --
Agitation, unpredictability, and irritation accompanying depleted vitality and intolerance of further demands have all placed him in a position in which he feels menaced by his circumstances. Feeling powerless to remedy this by any action of his own, he is desperately hoping that some solution will provide a way of escape.

--Reminds me of my horoscopes.

(GIT)r-man
27-02-2002, 03:03 PM
Wow...that's spooky

______________________________________________

Your Existing Situation
Working to create for himself a firm foundation on which to erect a secure, comfortable, and problem-free future, in which he will be granted respect and recognition.

Your Stress Sources
Wishes to be independent, unhampered, and free from any limitation or restriction, other than those which he imposes of himself or by his own choice and decision.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Has high emotional demands and is willing to involve himself in a close relationship, but not with any great depth of feeling.
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to him.

Your Desired Objective
His need to feel more causative and to have a wider sphere of influence makes him restless and he is driven by his desires and hopes. May try to spread his activities over too wide a field.

Your Actual Problem
Feels restricted and prevented from progressing; seeking a solution which will remove these limitations.

________________________________________________________

BurnOut64
27-02-2002, 03:10 PM
I took it, and it was pretty accurate! Then I took it again, and it was still accurate... Then I took it again, and again... I think tests like these play with subconsious feelings, and the human tendancy that we want things like this to be true and accurate.

Even tho I think its rigged, I enjoyed it!

Creeps
27-02-2002, 03:16 PM
these are mine, and the scary thing is; it's all TRUE! :eek:

Your Existing Situation:
Works well in cooperation with others but
is disinclined to take the leading role.
Needs a personal life of mutual understandin
and freedom from discord.


Your Stress Sources:
Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with
others whose standards are as high as his own,
and to stand out from the herd. His control of
his sensual instincts restricts his ability to
give himself, but the resulting isolation leads
to the urge to surrender and allow himself to
merge with another. This disturbs him, as such
instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome;
he feels that only by continued self-restraint can
he hope to maintain his attitude of individual superiority.
Wants to be loved or admired for himself alone;
needs attention, recognition, and the esteem of others.


Your Restrained Characteristics:
Unhappy at the resistance he feels
whenever he tries to assert himself. However,
he believes that there is little he can do and
that he must make the best of the situation.
Insists that his hopes and ideas are realistic,
but need reassurance and encouragement.
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.




Your Desired Objective
Considers the existing circumstances disagreeable
and over-demanding. Refuses to allow anything to
influence his point of view.


Your Actual Problem
The fear that he might be prevented from
achieving the things he wants drives him
to the exploitation of all types of experience,
so that he may categorically deny that any of
them has any value. This destructive denigration
becomes his method of concealing hopelessness and
a profound sense of futility.


Your Actual Problem #2
The need for esteem--for the chance to
play some outstanding part and make a
name for himself--has become imperative.
He reacts by insisting on being the center
of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or minor role.

Field Medic
27-02-2002, 03:18 PM
It was so inaccurate for mine that I wonder why I even bother :)

MadBopp
27-02-2002, 03:40 PM
This is spooky! That describes me very much... TOO much!

Relatively inactive and in a static condition, while conflict of one sort or another prevents peace of mind. Unable to achieve relationships of the desired degree of mutual affection and understanding.
Feels unappreciated and finds the existing situation disagreeable. Wants personal recognition and the esteem of others to compensate for the lack of like-minded people with whom to ally himself and make himself more secure. His sensual self-restraint makes it difficult for him to give himself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and merge with another. This disturbs him as he regards such instincts as weaknesses to be overcome; only by not succumbing to them, he feels, can he withstand the difficulties of the situation. Wants to be valued as a desirable associate and admired for his personal qualities.
Insists that his hopes and ideas are realistic, but need reassurance and encouragement. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.
Defiantly opposes any sort of restriction or opposition. Sticks obstinately to his own point of view in the belief that this proves his independence and self-determination.
-following is wrong, though! I'm quite a loner and prefers to be so. I prefer to be left alone most of the time!-
The need for esteem--for the chance to play some outstanding part and make a name for himself--has become imperative. He reacts by insisting on being the center of attention, and refuses to play an impersonal or minor role.
-back to the facts-
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. This feeling of powerlessness subjects him to agitation and acute distress. He reacts by considering that he has been victimized, and insists--with indignation, resentment, and defiance--on being given his own way.

Spooky! *shivers*

Slidje
27-02-2002, 03:58 PM
http://www.colourgenics.com is better
my colourgenics results (http://www.btinternet.com/~ezekiel.fireseed/profile.htm)

Your Existing Situation
Orderly, methodical, and self-contained. Needs the respect, recognition, and understanding of those close to him.

Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads him to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels listless, hemmed in, and anxious; considers that circumstances and forcing him to restrain his desires. Wants to avoid open conflict with others and to have peace and quiet.
Circumstances force him to compromise and to forgo some pleasures for the time being. Capable of achieving physical satisfaction from sexual activity.

Your Desired Objective
Needs to feel identified with someone or something and wishes to win support by his charm and amiability. Sentimental and yearns for a romantic tenderness.

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, and he is distressed by the lack of any close and understanding relationship. He attempts to escape into a substitute world in which things are more nearly as he desires them to be.

Phobos
27-02-2002, 04:30 PM
heh wow, im surprised at the accuracy of this...

and how exactly would it be rigged wolfie boy? o.o
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Your Existing Situation
Feels obstructed in his desires and prevented from obtaining the things he regards as essential.


Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.


Your Restrained Characteristics
Demanding and particular in his relations with his partner or those close to him, but careful to avoid open conflict since this might reduce his prospects of realizing his hopes and ideas.
The situation is preventing him from establishing himself, but he feels he must make the best of things as they are.

Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to him.




Your Desired Objective
Desires a tranquil, peaceful state of harmony offering quiet contentment and a sense of belonging.


Your Actual Problem
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem

Sankis
27-02-2002, 06:27 PM
Holy shit... ;_;

You Existing Situation
Insecure. Seeks roots, stability, emotional security, and an environment providing greater ease and fewer problems.



Your Stress Sources
Wishes to be independent, unhampered, and free from any limitation or restriction, other than those which he imposes of himself or by his own choice and decision.



Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Believes that he is not receiving his share--that he is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated. Feels that he is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave him without any sense of emotional involvement.




Your Desired Objective
Preoccupied with things of an intensely exciting nature, whether erotically stimulating or otherwise. Wants to be regarded as an exciting and interesting personality with an altogether charming and impressive influence on others. Uses tactics skillfully so as to avoid endangering his chances of success or undermining others' confidence in himself.




Your Actual Problem
Fights against restriction or limitation, and insists on developing freely as a result of his own efforts

Lord Booga
27-02-2002, 09:34 PM
wheee... pretty colours

*ahem*

Your Existing Situation

Exercises initiative in overcoming obstacles and difficulties. Either holds, or wishes to achieve, a position of authority in which control can be exerted over events.

Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. His control of his sensual instincts restricts his ability to give himself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow himself to merge with another. This disturbs him, as such instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; he feels that only by continued self-restraint can he hope to maintain his attitude of individual superiority. Wants to be loved or admired for himself alone; needs attention, recognition, and the esteem of others.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Believes that he is not receiving his share--that he is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated. Feels that he is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave him without any sense of emotional involvement.
Conditions are such that he will not let himself become intimately involved without making mental reservations.

Your Desired Objective
Needs a change in his circumstances or in his relationships which will permit relief from stress. Seeking a solution which will open up new and better possibilities and allow hopes to be fulfilled.

Your Actual Problem
The fear that he may be prevented from achieving the things he wants leads him into a relentless search for satisfaction in the pursuit of illusory or meaningless activities.

Your Actual Problem #2
Feels insufficiently valued in his existing situation, and is seeking different conditions in which he will have greater opportunity of demonstrating his worth.


Yea... noone appreciates me...

Kitten
28-02-2002, 09:24 AM
Most were accurate..and you're welcome..(for whoever it was that thanked me for the link..)
BB-attracted to my posts? aww ^.^ i feel special..i think O.o

Edcrab
28-02-2002, 03:48 PM
I did this test the moment I saw it, and I've read the replies with interest. It suits my situation to a greater or lesser extent, but the vocabulary used is somewhat universal- cleverly, such paragraphs produced by the test can be interpreted in several ways, making it even more direct to those who try it in the correct mood. Such things have always fascinated me.

Nomble
28-02-2002, 04:07 PM
Your Existing Situation
Conflict and dissatisfaction of one sort or another enforce the need for the compensations indicated by the + group

Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. His control of his sensual instincts restricts his ability to give himself, but the resulting isolation leads to the urge to surrender and allow himself to merge with another. This disturbs him, as such instincts are regarded as weaknesses to be overcome; he feels that only by continued self-restraint can he hope to maintain his attitude of individual superiority. Wants to be loved or admired for himself alone; needs attention, recognition, and the esteem of others

Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels that he cannot do much about his existing problems and difficulties and that he must make the best of things as they are. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.
Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.


Your Desired Objective
Seeks an affectionate relationship, offering fulfillment and happiness. Capable of powerful emotional enthusiasm. Helpful, and willing to adapt himself if necessary to realize the bond of affection he desires. Needs the same consideration and understanding from others.

Your Actual Problem
Needs to achieve a stable and peaceful condition, enabling him to free himself of the worry that he may be prevented from achieving all the things he wants.

Your Actual Problem #2
Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful association of mutual esteem


/me cries again..

Mr. Chris
28-02-2002, 05:08 PM
Sensitive; needs esthetic surroundings, or an equally sensitive and understanding partner with whom to share a warm intimacy.

Your Stress Sources
Unfulfilled hopes have led to uncertainty and apprehension. Needs to feel secure and to avoid any further disappointment, and fears being passed over or losing standings and prestige. Doubts that things will be any better in the future and this negative attitude leads him to make exaggerated demands and to refuse to make reasonable compromises.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels listless, hemmed in, and anxious; considers that circumstances and forcing him to restrain his desires. Wants to avoid open conflict with others and to have peace and quiet.
Circumstances force him to compromise and to forgo some pleasures for the time being. Capable of achieving physical satisfaction through sexual activity.


Your Desired Objective
Wants to make a favorable impression and be recognized. Needs to feel appreciated and admired. Sensitive and easily hurt if no notice is taken of him or if he is not given adequate acknowledgment.

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety. Desires recognition and position, but is worried about his prospects. Reacts to this by protecting at any criticism and resisting any attempt to influence him. Tries to assert himself by meticulous control of detail in an effort to strengthen his position

BurnOut64
28-02-2002, 07:33 PM
I'm trying to find info on this "Max Lûscher" guy, but I'm not coming up with any results. If his works "in the early 1900's" were so good, why arn't I finding more references? The only results I'm getting with major search engines are links to colorquiz.com

BurnOut64
28-02-2002, 07:53 PM
I just did some playing around with this test, and wrote down some color combos. I took it twice with exactly the same choices, but the results varried. The first 2 pages of results were the same, but the rest apear to be random.

I also looked at the technical side, and the colors apear random on the board each time, but that's not the problem. It's done entirely in CGI so I cant view the source from the web browser, and I can't find what the colored squares are linking to. A clever, but simple way to avoid cheating.

I still think its a clever use of words. I read Sankis's results, and they describe me. So do Mr. Chris's. Think about it, they all say pretty much the same thing about our human nature to try to fit in and not wanting to get rejected, with slight variations in how its presented.

KillJoy
01-03-2002, 07:47 AM
Burnout, I realy think its because its the People whom visit the site, think about it, our results are almost the same.

We all "use" the net, and my results "sounded" like the Situataion Im stuck in, but then again just read any other one on this thread....It fits too.

Kitten
01-03-2002, 08:57 AM
you see..we're all pretty much the same ;)
It can be a clever play on words, but then again, if it werent a test "online" would it be? plenty of pschycologist's use colour therapy as part of their sessions...
It's still fun nonetheless. ^.^
hope you guys enjoyed it ;)
in trust love and ecstacy,
~kitten

GhostBabble
01-03-2002, 09:57 AM
LOL THIS IS SPOOKY! Afew colours and wham! They know all about joo!

Your Existing Situation
Avoids excessive effort and needs roots, security, and peaceful companionship.

Your Stress Sources
Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that he has a right to anything he might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against him. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration. Sees himself as a 'victim' who has been misled and abused, mistakes this dramatization for reality and tries to convince himself that his failure to achieve standing and recognition is the fault of others.

Your Restrained Characteristics
The situation is preventing him from establishing himself, but he feels he must make the best of things as they are.
Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.

Your Desired Objective
Feels the situation is hopeless. Strongly resists things which he finds disagreeable. Tries to shield himself from anything which might irritate him or make him feel more depressed.
somehow, this is extremly true

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment and the fear that there is no point in formulating fresh goals have led to anxiety, emptiness, and an unadmitted self-contempt. His refusal to admit this leads to his adopting a headstrong and defiant attitude.

Your Actual Problem #2
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. This feeling of powerlessness subjects him to agitation and acute distress. He reacts by considering that he has been victimized, and insists--with indignation, resentment, and defiance--on being given his own way.

koelzk
01-03-2002, 03:07 PM
Hmm interesting quiz.
I made it serveral time. The frist time it said under "Your Restrained Characteristics " the following: Very exacting in the standards he applies to his choice of a partner and seeking a rather unrealistic perfection in his sex life.

and later: Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity.

I DON'T HAVE A SEX LIFE!

I tried to analyze the test. I think is depends if you prefer cold colors or warm colors. At first I took only the dark green-blue and the blue after them the black and the grey.
(Maybe the bright white background manipalutes your selection, because you automatically choose darker color to balance this white.)

At first I was something like a stubborn rationalist, after that I
had a sensitive and shy nature and at the end I was something like a hyperactive child.

Yes, the statement is so common formulated, I think I have something of all. (Who has not?)

Nemesis6
01-03-2002, 03:09 PM
Your Existing Situation
Needs warm companionship, but is intolerant of anything short of special consideration from those close to him. If this is not forthcoming, is liable to shut himself away from them!

Your Stress Sources
The situation is regarded as threatening or dangerous. Outraged by the thought that he will be unable to achieve his goals and distressed at the feeling of helplessness to remedy this. Over-extended and feels beset, possibly to the point of nervous prostration.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to become emotionally involved and able to achieve satisfaction through SEXUAL ACTIVITY ?!?!?
Feels that he is receiving less than his share and that there is no one on whom he can rely for sympathy and understanding. Pent-up emotions and a certain egocentricity make him quick to take offense, but he realizes that he has to make the best of things as they are.

Your Desired Objective
Needs a change in his circumstances or in his relationships which will permit relief from stress. Seeking a solution which will open up new and better possibilities and allow hopes to be fulfilled.

Your Actual Problem
Agitation, unpredictability, and irritation accompanying depleted vitality and intolerance of further demands have all placed him in a position in which he feels menaced by his circumstances. Feeling powerless to remedy this by any action of his own, he is desperately hoping that some solution will provide a way of escape.

I was truely amazed by this, it pin-pointed my exact weaknesses!

GhostBabble
02-03-2002, 02:10 AM
We need someone to judge us and tell us how to improve...feels good dont it?

Samurai_Snark
02-03-2002, 03:42 PM
Wow... this was freaky. some of the stuff was true... here's my results:

Your Existing Situation
Needs warm companionship, but is intolerant of anything short of special consideration from those close to him. If this is not forthcoming, is liable to shut himself away from them.

Your Stress Sources
Wants a partner with whom he can share fully in an atmosphere of cloudless serenity, but his compulsion to demonstrate his individuality leads him to adopt a critical and demanding attitude. This introduces discord and leads to alternating periods of drawing closer and drawing apart, so that the ideal state he desires is not allowed to develop. Despite the urge to gratify his natural desires, he imposes a considerable self-restraint on his instincts in the belief that this demonstrates his superiority and raises him above the common herd. Discerning, critical and particular, having taste and discrimination. These qualities, combined with his tendency to judge things for himself and to express his opinions with authority. He enjoys the original, the ingenious and the subtle, striving to ally himself with others of similar taste who can help him in his intellectual unfolding. Desires admiration and the esteem of others.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.
Circumstances are forcing him to compromise, to restrain his demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things he wants.

Your Desired Objective
His need to feel more causative and to have a wider sphere of influence makes him restless and he is driven by his desires and hopes. May try to spread his activities over too wide a field.

Your Actual Problem
Feels insufficiently valued in his existing situation, and is seeking different conditions in which he will have greater opportunity of demonstrating his worth.

Your Actual Problem #2
Intensely critical of the existing conditions which he feels are disorganized or insufficiently clear-cut. Is therefore seeking some solution which will clarify the situation and introduce a more acceptable degree of order and method.

Phx
02-03-2002, 09:57 PM
Starting Note: My spelling sucks.
Hmm...
Your Existing Situation
Pursues his objectives and his own-self-interest with stubborn determination; refuses to compromise or make concessions.
Much as I would like to disbelieve this I know I am stuborn as well as opioionated.

Your Stress Sources
Eager to make a good impression, but worried and doubtful about the likelihood of succeeding. Feels that he has a right to anything he might hope for, and becomes helpless and distressed when circumstances go against him. Finds the mere possibility of failure most upsetting and this can even lead to nervous prostration. Sees himself as a 'victim' who has been misled and abused, mistakes this dramatization for reality and tries to convince himself that his failure to achieve standing and recognition is the fault of others.
Sometimes true tho I generally try to hold my self responsible for my pathetic situation.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Becomes distressed when his needs or desires are misunderstood and feels that he has no one to turn to or rely on. Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense.
Willing to become emotionally involved and able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity, but tries to avoid conflict.
Egocentric? I am the first one to make fun of myself.
As for mention of sexual activity and emotionally involment... this thing has to be wrong. I shut my self away from others whenever possible.

Your Desired Objective
Desires a tranquil, peaceful state of harmony offering quiet contentment and a sense of belonging.
Now we are back on track:)

Your Actual Problem
Disappointment at the non-fulfillment of his hopes and the fear that to formulate fresh goals will only lead to further setbacks have resulted in considerable anxiety. He is trying to escape from this into a peaceful and harmonious relationship, protecting him from dissatisfaction and lack of appreciation.
Dead on again...

Your Actual Problem #2
Depleted vitality has created an intolerance for any further stimulation, or demands on his resources. A feeling of powerlessness subjects him to agitation and acute distress. Tries to escape from this by relinquishing the struggle, and by finding peaceful and restful conditions in which to recuperate in an atmosphere of affection and security.
Isn't this the same as the one above?

Very interesting, thanks for the link Kitten.

Macros
02-03-2002, 10:15 PM
Your Existing Situation
Sensuous. Inclined to luxuriate in things which give gratification to the senses, but rejects anything tasteless, vulgar, or coarse.

Your Stress Sources
Wishes to be independent, unhampered, and free from any limitation or restriction, other than those which he imposes of himself or by his own choice and decision.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Believes that he is not receiving his share--that he is neither properly understood or adequately appreciated. Feels that he is being compelled to conform, and close relationships leave him without any sense of emotional involvement.

Your Desired Objective
Seeks success, stimulation, and a life full of experience. Wants to develop freely and to shake off the shackles of self-doubt, to win, and to live intensely. Likes contacts with others and is enthusiastic by nature. Receptive to anything new, modern, or intriguing; has many interests and wants to expand his fields of activity. Optimistic about the future.

Your Actual Problem
Fights against restriction or limitation, and insists on developing freely as a result of his own efforts.

Cool. I'm not sure if its accurate yet, i'll have to keep going over it.

Prod
03-03-2002, 08:35 PM
Doh. My text went away when I previewed. Arghhhhh. Well anyway, it missed the broad side of the barn on the first try, it skimmed the target on the second, and it hit the bullseye the third.

tweak
03-03-2002, 08:41 PM
Your Existing Situation
Not only considers his demands minimal, but also regards them as imperative. Sticks to them stubbornly and will concede nothing

Your Stress Sources
An existing situation or relationship is unsatisfactory,(nope never had a relationship) but he feels unable to change it to bring about the sense of belonging which he needs. Unwilling to expose his vulnerability, he therefore continues to resist this state of affairs, but feels dependent on the attachment. This not only depresses him, but makes him irritable and impatient, producing considerable restlessness and the urge to get away from the situation, either actually or, at least, mentally. Ability to concentrate may suffer. (hmmm no)

Your Restrained Characteristics
Feels listless, hemmed in, and anxious; considers that circumstances and forcing him to restrain his desires. Wants to avoid open conflict with others and to have peace and quiet. (very very true)
Egocentric and therefore quick to take offense. Sensitive and sentimental, but conceals this from all except those very close to him. (very very false)

Your Desired Objective
In despair and needs relief of some sort. Wants physical ease, a problem free security, and the chance to recover

Your Actual Problem
Anxiety and restless dissatisfaction, either with circumstances or with unfulfilled emotional requirements, have produced stress. He feels misunderstood, disoriented, and unsettled. This drives him into a search for new conditions or relationships, in the hope that these might offer greater contentment and peace of mind. (ok whatever)